5 Things You Should Do Before Quitting Your 9-5 Job


Are you thinking of leaving your 9-5 job?

I’m guessing you do, and that’s why you’re here. I get you – I really do.

I have always, always wanted to be a mom that could stay home with her children, and be home when they arrived from school. Unfortunately for me, I had to go out into the corporate world and bring the bacon home. I worked first in Administration and Business Support, then on to Teaching and Tutoring, and then settled on working as Recruitment Consultant for over 10 years.

It wasn’t until much later that I realized that I could be a WAHM – A Work at Home Mom, or even a Mompreneur. When I first learned about the possibilities, I jumped into research mode (because that’s what I like to do), and hit the books (or Google).

Let me tell you now though that it wasn’t easy. I confused myself with the many different options I learned from all my researching. It all seemed so impossible.

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I was determined to be an entrepreneur – a mompreneur. I looked into selling at craft fairs, baking homemade goods to sell, Etsy, Amazon, and eBay. I bought a second-hand sewing machine (which, for the life of me, I still don’t know how to use). I even thought about cleaning houses, doing paper runs, and dog walking.

What I craved most was the opportunity to purchase a franchise so that I could run my own business. I researched into franchise law, franchise opportunities, and bank loans.

In spite of my drive and positive energy, I found that crafting took over my time and my sanity. I couldn’t keep up with making enough crafts to sell so that I could sustain a household income-wise. Doing the paper run would take up so much of my time for very little return. And banks declined my applications for business loans for franchise opportunities.

So you can imagine how defeated and jaded I felt when nothing seemed possible. I was devastated.

I need to make it clear though that this process took a couple of years – not a few weeks of research; certainly not a few days. It took a couple of years and a bit of myself was broken.


It wasn’t until I really decided to take a leap of faith with the help of Wayne, my partner, and his belief in me and my talents; that things really started to take off. There was light at the end of my so-called tunnel of despair, and I was walking towards that light.

After that leap, I never looked back. Today, I am a Freelance Writer and Blogger. I am actually living my dream of being a writer!! Gosh, what I would give to tell my young self what Iโ€™d become today! Hereโ€™s how I started my freelance career.

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OKAY – so before we go on any further, I’d like to say that by no means am I encouraging you to leave your job and just jump ship. I totally understand that everyone’s situations are different. The situation of a single 20, 30, 40-year old is very different from a 20, 30, 40-year-old mom of three kids. See what I mean?

What I am saying though is – before you make that leap, it’s really important to be strategic, discerning, and dedicated.

Here are 5 Things You Should Do To Become Your Own Boss

1. Initiate | Determine WHY you want to leave your job

For this first part, it’s important to determine why you want to leave your job.

For example – I want to leave my job because:

  • I want to stay home with my children
  • I want to be my own boss
  • I don’t like the people I work with
  • I’m not a morning person
  • I prefer to work on my own and in my own time
  • My job is too stressful

Whatever your reasons are, make sure that you are honest with yourself.

Next, make a list of what you don’t like and – this equally important – a list of what you like about your job.

For example – I don’t like:

  • The stress involved
  • The hours of work
  • That it doesn’t challenge me
  • It is is not “me”
  • That my salary does not reflect what I am worth

For example – I like:

  • My boss
  • The people I work with
  • The challenges I am presented with
  • Learning knew things
  • That I get paid well

Weigh out the pros and cons of leaving your job. These should be based on the reasons you want to leave your job. 

For example – PROS

  • I will be able to spend more time with the children
  • I will be able to manage my time more
  • I will be able to focus on my passion

For example – CONS

  • Without my income, we will be living on a tight budget
  • I will miss my colleagues and being around people
  • I may find it difficult to get another job if I leave this one

Ask yourself: Is there anything that your current workplace can do to help ease your situation?

Often, people think they want to leave their job because there is something that is not being met. So, ask yourself if there is something that your current workplace can do or change to make you rethink your plans of leaving.

For example – I won’t leave my job if:

  • I am given a salary increase
  • I am moved to another department
  • I am given more responsibility
  • I am given flexible hours

Now, this is important – if after doing this, you do find that there are in fact some things that your employer can do for you to make you stay in your job; make a plan to ask for it. It is so important that you know that employers and managers don’t think about whether you are happy or unhappy until you actually tell them.

Do not wait until you are ready to quit to ask for something you feel you deserve. This only causes resentment. It is very likely that what you are wanting to ask for is actually something that will be beneficial to both parties – you and your employer.

Employers and managers don’t think about whether you are happy or unhappy until you actually tell them.

2. Identify | What is your current income and how does it meet your family needs?

SO – if you decided to go on to step two, it’s because you have decided that there is nothing that your employer can do for you to help make your situation at work better.

Now then, it’s time to identify what your family needs are, and how losing your income will affect you.

Write down your income and what that income does for you and your family.

For example: Income – $30,000 per year

  • This income is helpful in that it pays for the children’s activities and family entertainment such as going to the movies and dining out.

For example: Income – $60,000 per year

  • This income is supplemental to that of my husband/partner. It meets half of our household needs and is essential for groceries, children’s activities, and family entertainment.

For example: Income – $90,000 per year

  • This income is crucial as it pays for the family mortgage, daily family expenses, household utilities, children’s activities, and family entertainment.

3. Budget | What will give you and your family what you need?

Now, ask yourself: How will it affect my family if I lose this income?

If you temporarily lose your income, will your family be able to get by until such time that your business takes off and starts contributing to the family finances?

When Wayne and I discussed the option of leaving my job, we brainstormed on how much I needed to earn to make it sustainable. For those of you who may not know, Wayne is a Management Accountant – and he’s the brains behind our family finances. So we sat down and made a budget, identifying that all I needed to earn was $150 per week to help with the groceries.

I couldn’t believe it. $150 a week was all that stood between me and my dream! Totally doable!

4. Plan | How can you achieve your goal?

SAVE – Before leaving my 9-5 job, we made sure that we were putting aside some money to help as a buffer while I was setting up my business and This Blended Home of Mine.

IDENTIFY YOUR OPTIONS – Now that you know what you need, it’s time to identify your options. For me, I needed $150 a week to contribute to the household; and then the rest to invest in my business.

So during this time, I chose to do these three things on the side:

1. I worked part-time (6 – 12 hours a week) in a Day Care Center – $144 per week on average

2. Focused on my Freelance Writing – $45 per hour on average

3. Babysitting at home – $10 per hour on average

INVEST IN YOUR BUSINESS – It’s important to invest in your business. I hate to say it, but… you have to spend money, to make money.

If you have thought about writing or blogging as a business, you can read my honest guide on how to start your own blog here. I tell you about all my mistakes and that could help YOU from making the same ones and saving money in the process. Let’s face it, we don’t enjoy spending money on mistakes!

Now because I love to research, I devoured everything that I could on the best courses that would help me achieve my goals. There was so much information, it was overwhelming.

I purchased a few cheap online courses that turned out to be duds, and then those that were like striking gold! Total game changers!

These courses were are my favorite and I continue to refer to them. I loved them so much that I have applied to be an affiliate because I truly believe that these three courses helped me to get to where I am today – doing what I love!

1. The first one is Pinteresting Strategies by Carly at Mommy on Purpose. You can read more about what it did for my blog here.

2. The next course – and one that I really saved up for – is Making Sense of Affiliate Marketing by Michelle Schroeder-Gardner. In this course, Michelle shows you the exact strategies she used (and continues to use!) to go from $0 in affiliate income to over $50,000 per month.

When I first started, it wasn’t long before I started seeing a consistent increase in my affiliate income.

Michelle’s course is $197 (or you can pay in two parts as a payment option, still getting full access upfront) – AND, if after the course, you feel like it’s not doing it for you, she will refund you the money spent. It’s a win-win. I certainly don’t think I’m going to be asking for a refund. I’m very happy with what’s in the course.

3. The eBook How to Blog for Profit Without Selling Your Soulis fantastic. It’s written by Ruth Soukup of the Elite Blog Academy (EBA). She also blogs over at Living Well Spending Less. I love her personal story!

Now listen, I’m NOT an alumnus of EBA, but I did buy the eBook and again, I’m very happy with it. I read the book from cover to cover, and I had so many A-HA moments. I especially love how she quotes one of her mentors by saying, “Do not compare your beginning to someone else’s middle.” So true. So true.

5. Implement | Do it

After you have done steps 1-4, it’s time to implement your strategy. When you resign from your 9-5 job, make sure that you set up the side hustles that will help you keep afloat while trying to build your business. Remember, I did 3 – Daycare work, Babysitting, and Freelance Writing.

Within four months of hustling, my freelance writing business began to generate more clients, I stopped working at the daycare center. Instead, I focused all my efforts on getting more clients and setting up This Blended Home of Mine. Today, I work full-time on my writing (both freelance and blogging).

There you have it, Mamas! If you do decide to take that leap of faith, I wish you all the very best. YOU WILL BE SO AWESOME! If you have any questions at all, feel free to leave a comment or email me at ThisBlendedHomeOfMine@gmail.com

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16 thoughts

  1. this post is very detailed! love it! I will take a look at the courses!

    1. thisblendedhomeofmine says:

      Thanks Bronx! So glad you think so. The courses and eBook are great. I wish I hadn’t spent on anything else! Good luck xox

  2. Change is pretty scary. That’s why planning ahead is important. So is giving ourselves ample time in order to make the transition happen. Thank you for sharing your story. You’ve indeed inspired a lot of people to do the same. ๐Ÿ˜Š

    1. thisblendedhomeofmine says:

      It sure is, Mei. Planning makes it a lot less scary!

  3. I am a new blogger and I have been trying to figure out which bloggers course is worth paying way more than I have to spend right now. I want to become a successful blogger also. I want to start a business that my children can take over as adults and never have to worry about working a 9-5. I am enjoying blogging even though I haven’t made any money from it yet but I’m not gonna give up.Congrats on your success!

    1. thisblendedhomeofmine says:

      These courses and the eBook are so worth it. I wish I hadn’t spent on anything else… but hey, we all make some poor purchases sometimes. I’m still consoling myself over them – haha! I would love to be able to give my children a business that they can enjoy and benefit from in the future too. Let’s just keep moving forward, aye? xoxo

  4. Melanie Sparks says:

    I appreciate that it starts with why. Why do you want to leave your job? I planned for a few months before taking the leap. It wasn’t perfect, but I did it. And I’m figuring it out. Thanks for sharing!

    1. thisblendedhomeofmine says:

      Hey Melanie! Yes, I think it’s really important to understand WHY we want to do something. When we understand our why, we are clearer on what the solutions could be without acting in haste. Congrats on doing it!

  5. This is like music to my ears!!!! I think you are inside my head lol. Can’t wait to leave my job and blog full time!

    1. thisblendedhomeofmine says:

      Good luck, Kristin!! ๐Ÿ™‚

  6. This is great Nd really encouraging. I really want to leave my 9-5 but I am the sole provider for my family and I have a mountain of student loan debt. I know that if I use your plan and stick to it can can at least work part time (which I wouldn’t mind) at my 9-5 and then rub my blog. Thanks for sharing!

    1. thisblendedhomeofmine says:

      Strategic planning will get you there, Toni. You can do it!!

  7. Great content and agree with making sense of affiliate marketing! Just purchased and am still reading it such great tips. Just love reading great blogging experience like urs bc it inspires me more and motivates me. Which I need to hear sometimes thx!

    1. thisblendedhomeofmine says:

      Thanks Tosha! It’s hard work, but so worth it ๐Ÿ™‚ Feel free to reach out if you ever need anything xo

  8. any suggestions for reading all about blogging? I need to understand it fully and for now do not want to spend money on it..please advise.

    1. thisblendedhomeofmine says:

      Hello Ravi! Feel free to visit our How to Blog Category. If you have any questions, drop us a line ๐Ÿ™‚ Good luck!

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